Jons Mostovojs @jonn@social.doma.dev

To every guy who came into the comments on my Gisele Pelicot article to yell “not all men” at me and demand I give due deference to the good guys… It’s time to be quiet.

An investigation uncovered more than 70,000 users in Telegram group chats admitting to raping women and sharing tips on how to sedate them.

This investigation came out right after the verdict in the landmark Gisele Pelicot mass rape trial - which saw her ex husband sentenced to 20 years in prison and another 50 men found guilty of sexual assault.

Gisele was drugged by her husband for over a decade - and assaulted by at least 80 men.

Since writing about her case and why shame must change sides - I’ve endured a slew of abuse that ranges from “not all men” rallying cries to men telling me that I would be happier if I adopted more traditional values - and everything in between.

I’ve been called every slur you can think of.

I’ve been told that if I were more appreciative of men I wouldn’t be so “angry”. I’ve been labeled a misandrist and accused of not being supportive enough of the opposite sex.

I’ve been informed that it’s a woman’s job to prevent assault - and that she needs to take that job more seriously.

We take it very seriously. We can’t stop you from raping us.

If we could - there would be no more rape.

We’ve fought for decades against the patriarchal, misogynistic rape culture that leads to so much suffering and abuse … we need YOU to fight now.

There’s a certain perverseness in demanding a victim show more respect for the opposite sex while you show her absolutely no respect at all.

These men are so busy trying to make sure the internet knows they’re “good men” that they can’t even see how horrifically they’re behaving.

Or maybe they can see - and they simply don’t care.

I genuinely don’t know anymore. All I know is that no matter how many times I explain that while it’s not all men - I can’t know which men it is - the message is not sinking in.

It NEEDS to sink in.

Rape is not some rare event that is carried out by a stranger who was hiding in the bushes … it’s almost always someone we know.

As the article linked above proves - men will go to great lengths to sedate their partners, wives, girlfriends etc just so they can harm them.

They’re hiding drugs in hair products. They’re swapping tips on the internet. They’re inviting other men over to harm the women who’ve trusted them with their safety.

This is a huge fucking problem. It’s not an anomaly. It’s not something to be swept under the rug.

We won’t be silent anymore.

We are going to keep being loud. We will keep calling this behaviour out wherever we see it

Rape culture thrives in the dark. Abusers count on the shame their victims will feel as a way to keep them quiet.

Gisele Pelicot has encouraged all victims to speak up. It is not our shame - it’s theirs.

Please join us. Demand better of your fellow man. Loudly condemn these despicable acts.

Show us that you’re one of the good guys by being a true ally - not by yelling over us on the internet.

Listen. Pay attention. Speak up if you see someone being harmed.

We won’t go gently. It’s time for change.

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/world-news/2024/12/19/telegram-rape-chat-groups-germany-investigation-70000-world/

My article on Gisele Pelicot, medical misogyny & why disabled people face increased risk: https://www.disabledginger.com/p/gisele-pelicot-medical-misogyny-and

#mercigisele #giselepelicot
#sexualassault #rape #abuse #misogyny #patriarchy #fuckthepatriarchy #shamemustchangesides #womensrights

@masek I think I need to do a separate post on the second article because it’s 70,000 men. 70,000 men caught in group rape chats talking about how to rape their wives and girlfriends. How to get the drugs etc. how is this not headline news??

This week is another reminder that:

We don't have an energy shortage
We don't have an insulin shortage
We don't have a housing shortage
We don't have a teacher shortage
We don't have a labor shortage
We don't have a food shortage

We have a billionaire excess who buy politicians to deny us access to basic human rights.

Tiny cabin #pixelart #animation. Made in #b3d

my god if i never have to read another article bagging on wholesome games and the people who play them it'll be too fucking soon

Early in 2025, BT, Virgin Media, Sky, TalkTalk, EE and Plusnet will be required to abuse DNS to attempt to block customer access to:

Library Genesis
Z-Library
Anna’s Archive

I haven’t found a copy of the actual court judgment / order, just PR fluff and regurgitations of it.

This is under the UK’s copyright law framework; this kind of administrative blocking order is the backstop power under the Online Safety Act.

It's over. The plane has landed successfully, with no damage.

Organic Maps Turns 4 🎉

https://organicmaps.app/news/2024-12-20/organicmaps-turns-four/

- ~3M¹ users from all countries of the world
- ~15k ratings and reviews on AppStore and Google Play
- 4.8/4.6 average rating on AppStore/Google Play
- 10k+ stars on GitHub
- 10k (almost) issues + PRs on GitHub
- 1k (almost) forks on GitHub
- 7k+ git commits
- ~100 awesome contributors who made 5+ commits

Congratulations to all the users and contributors for your hard work and dedication! Thank you for being a part of this journey!

Dear international colleagues, repression in the Netherlands is worsening. We can really use your support. Please join me in signing this open letter demanding accountability from our Executive Board for the wrongful arrest of six students and staff at my university https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe_Pf2faJV8bBqt7CzUJd5js3iwfXcDBH8DuDsCOSfA5gEa2A/viewform?fbzx=792311802144771676

A new project has launched from #United24 to fund generators for schools. For my niece, cousins and all the other kids in #Ukraine
https://u24.gov.ua/bring-light-back

@arichtman @jonn Plenty of examples where you can understand the reasons they are not that good. Lending from an Iterator or a closure for example is not possible for example. Range is not Copy even if bounds are. Bounded Range is even worse...

@jonn I'm consistently impressed by how solid Rust's internal logic is. I'm often frustrated by it but it's never had a bad reason for the Why. Perhaps I'm just not deep enough yet. #RustLang #Rust